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Article: Guide: How to Choose the Perfect Nursing Shirt

Guide: How to Choose the Perfect Nursing Shirt

Guide: How to Choose the Perfect Nursing Shirt

The nursing blouse is an essential piece in any new mom’s postpartum wardrobe for those who want to combine professional elegance with practicality. Unlike traditional clothing, it features discreet opening systems and cuts designed to accommodate your body’s changing shape.

At 23 Mai Paris, we create nursing shirts that transform your daily life as a new mom. This guide reveals all the factors to consider when choosing the perfect style, combining technical expertise with an eye for style.

Discover our nursing tops Stylish for any occasion.


The different opening systems: the number one criterion

The effectiveness of a nursing top depends primarily on its opening mechanism. Understanding these features will help you make an informed choice based on your needs.

Demonstration of the side opening on a nursing top

Side openings vs. front openings

Side openings (under the arms)

Benefits Disadvantages
Maximum discretion Slightly less direct access
Classic look preserved May take a little practice
Perfect for the office -
Invisible even when open -

Front openings (with appropriate buttoning)

Benefits Disadvantages
Very easy and direct access Less reserved in public
Precise adjustment of the aperture "Breastfeeding" appearance sometimes visible
Perfect for the home -

Our recommendation: Side vents for work and outings, front vents for home use.

Closure system on a nursing top for discreet opening

Discreet clips: the innovation to choose

Clips represent the most advanced innovation in the world of nursing wear.

Types of clips:

Type How it works Benefits
Magnetic clips Invisible magnets Quiet, one-handed, very discreet
Snap clips Hidden snap fasteners Sturdy, discreet
Traditional clips Small hooks Affordable, reliable

Why choose magnetic clips:

  • Silent opening (important at night!)
  • One-handed operation
  • Secure and automatic closure
  • No visible features that give away its function

At 23 Mai Paris, we use magnetic clips that are seamlessly integrated into the design for a completely discreet look.


The double-layer system

Stylish nursing blouse for work with discreet openings

This system creates a reassuring visual barrier thanks to two layers of fabric placed one on top of the other.

Advantages :

  • Psychological support for breastfeeding in public
  • Holding the fabric in place
  • Additional protection

Ideal for: Moms who are concerned about modesty or who often breastfeed in public.


Choose based on your postpartum body type

Your body changes after giving birth. A good nursing top accommodates these changes to help you feel your best.

For a comprehensive guide to body types, check out our article Nursing Tops: 5 Styles to Compare Based on Your Body Type.

For a full bust

Breast augmentation requires specific incisions.

What to prioritize:

Element Why
Empire waist (high waistline below the bust) Highlights the slimmest part of the torso
Adjustable clamps Shape the silhouette without a "baggy" look
Princess seams Flatter curves naturally
Generous armholes Avoid layoffs

Avoid:

  • Shirts that are too tight and constricting
  • Shirts that are too loose and make you look bigger
  • Buttons that pull or gape

For the post-pregnancy belly

The abdominal area is often tender after childbirth.

What to prioritize:

Element Why
Straight or slightly flared cuts Gently brush without leaving marks
Flowing fabrics An elegant drape that conceals
Box pleats or basques Distract attention
Mid-thigh length Provides coverage without weighing it down

Avoid:

  • Shirts that are too short and end at the waist
  • Fabrics that are too thin and show through
  • Fitted at the waist

For size variations

Your size may fluctuate while breastfeeding (milk coming in, gradual weight loss, etc.).

Adjustment solutions to look for:

Solution Advantage
Hidden sliding links Invisible adjustment in everyday life
Offset buttoning Several possible positions
Adjustable martingales Adjustable bending
Stretch fabrics Fit naturally

These technical details will help you track your progress over several months.


Preferred materials

The choice of materials directly affects your everyday comfort.

Discover also our Breastfeeding t-shirts made from organic cotton for everyday wear.

Natural fibers vs. synthetic fibers

Subject Benefits Perfect for...
Organic cotton Hypoallergenic, absorbent, soft Sensitive skin, summer
Cotton-spandex (3–5%) Comfort + shape retention Everyday use
Viscose/modal Light, silky, fresh Fine days, special occasions
Flax Breathable, stylish Summer
Poplin Organized, professional Office

The ideal combination:

  • 90–97% cotton (preferably organic)
  • 3–5% spandex for comfort
  • Or a cotton-viscose blend for a softer drape

Ease of maintenance: a key criterion

With a baby, stains and laundry are a daily occurrence. Your shirt needs to hold up.

What to check:

Criterion What you need
Washing Machine wash, 30–40°C
Drying Quick, ideally without a dryer
Ironing Minimal or unnecessary
Stain resistance Invisible stain treatment, if possible
Color fastness Colors that don't fade

Tip: Shirts made of high-quality poplin or tightly woven cotton are easier to remove stains from than textured fabrics.


Choose based on your daily needs

Nursing shirt for work

Priorities: Maximum discretion, professional appearance.

What you need Why
Hidden side openings None of my colleagues will guess
Neutral colors (white, sky blue, beige) Fits the dress code
Structured cut Professional appearance
Fabric that doesn't wrinkle Looking great all day long

Our tip: Invest in 2–3 high-quality shirts rather than 5 basic ones. You’ll wear them often.

For more tips, check out our article Stylish Nursing Outfits: 5 Tips for Staying Chic.

A mom discreetly breastfeeding at work in a professional nursing top

Nursing blouse for special occasions

Priorities: Elegance, femininity.

What you need Why
Refined details (tailored collar, mother-of-pearl buttons) Dressing effect
High-quality fabrics (silk blends, fine poplin) Elegantly draped
Flattering cut Brings out the best in you
Solid color or subtle print Out of the ordinary

Everyday nursing shirt

Priorities: Comfort, practicality, and ease of maintenance.

What you need Why
Very convenient openings Frequent breastfeeding
Comfortable materials Prolonged wear
Easy to maintain Frequent washing
Casual chic Suitable for everything
Stylish nursing blouse for special occasions

Mistakes to avoid

Mistake #1: Buying too early or too late

Timing Problem
Too early (during pregnancy) Morphology has not yet stabilized
Too late (at the last minute) A hasty choice, a bad decision

The right time: Around the 8th month of pregnancy or in the first few weeks after giving birth.


Mistake #2: Skipping the fitting (or testing the openings)

Before you buy, try it out:

  • Can you open it with one hand?
  • Is the opening wide enough?
  • Is the system quiet?
  • Does the shirt stay in place once it's open?

Mistake #3: Choosing based solely on price

Quality Estimated price Service life Actual cost
Entry-level €25–€40 2–4 months €8–15/month
Mid-range €50–€80 8–12 months €5–8/month
Premium €80–120 12–24 months+ €4–7/month

Conclusion: Quality saves money in the long run.


Mistake #4: Forgetting about versatility after breastfeeding

A good nursing shirt can still be worn after weaning. Check:

  • Are the openings really invisible?
  • Is the cut timeless?
  • Could you wear it without breastfeeding?

How many nursing shirts do you need?

Profile Recommended amount
Stay-at-home mom 1–2 for formal occasions
Mom Going Back to Work At least 3–4
A very active mom (who goes out often) 2–3

Our tip: A nursing blouse isn't an everyday staple (that role belongs to the T-shirt). It's a piece for when you want to dress up a bit.

To put together your complete wardrobe, check out our article How many nursing clothes do you really need?


Pre-purchase checklist

The opening system:

  • Is it closed?
  • Can it be opened with one hand?
  • Is it quiet?
  • Is the opening wide enough?

The cut:

  • Does it suit my current body type?
  • Will it adjust to changes in size?
  • Is the length flattering?

Materials:

  • Do they feel comfortable to the touch?
  • Are they easy to maintain?
  • Will they hold up to frequent washing?

Versatility:

  • Will I be able to wear it after weaning?
  • Will it go well with my existing wardrobe?

Conclusion

Choosing the perfect nursing top requires considering several factors: the opening style, a cut that flatters your body type, high-quality materials, and versatility. By investing in well-designed pieces, you’ll enjoy comfort, style, and practicality throughout your breastfeeding journey.

At 23 Mai Paris, we design nursing clothes that meet all these criteria. Because a mom returning to work or going out for a special occasion deserves to feel both beautiful AND comfortable.

Browse our collection of nursing wear and find the perfect shirt for your workdays and special occasions.

 

If you are breastfeeding, here are some of our nursing clothes that may interest you:

T-shirts d'allaitement
T-shirts d'allaitement imprimés
T-shirts d'allaitement personnalisés
T-shirts d’allaitement basiques
Hauts d’allaitement personnalisables
Pulls d'allaitement
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement
Pulls d'allaitement maille
Débardeurs d'allaitement
Robes d'allaitement
Pyjamas d'allaitement
vêtements d'allaitement  
Vêtements de maternité et d'allaitement
Vêtements d'allaitement à ouverture sur le côté
Vêtements d'allaitement grande taille
Vêtements d'allaitement d'été
Vêtements d'allaitement chauds
Vêtements d'allaitement brodés
Vêtements d'allaitement d'hiver
Vêtements d'allaitement confortables
Vêtements d'allaitement en coton
Vêtements de grossesse et d'allaitement
Vêtements d'allaitement originaux
Vêtements d'allaitement pas chers
Vêtements d'allaitement personnalisés
Vêtements d'allaitement en soldes
Vêtements d'allaitement à manches courtes
Vêtements d'allaitement à petit prix
Vêtements d'allaitement à zip
Vêtements d'allaitement abordables
Vêtements d'allaitement amples
Vêtements d'allaitement beiges
Vêtements d'allaitement blanc
Vêtements d'allaitement bleu
Vêtements d'allaitement discrets
Vêtements d'allaitement doux
Vêtements d'allaitement en promotion
Vêtements d'allaitement gris
Vêtements d'allaitement Imprimés
Vêtements d'allaitement jaunes
Vêtements d'allaitement leopard
Vêtements d'allaitement noir
Vêtements d'allaitement rose
Vêtements d’allaitement sobres
Vêtements d'allaitement tendances
Vêtements d'allaitement unis
Vêtements de sport pour l'allaitement
T-shirt allaitement imprimé
T-shirt allaitement personnalisé
T-shirt allaitement coloris uni
T-shirt allaitement manches longues
T-shirt allaitement blanc
T-shirt allaitement bleu
T-shirt allaitement noir
T-shirt allaitement gris
T-shirt allaitement camel
T-shirt allaitement léopard
T-shirt allaitement brodés
T-shirt allaitement coton
T-shirt allaitement zip
T-shirt allaitement été
T-shirt allaitement hiver
T-shirt grossesse allaitement
T-shirt allaitement milk
T-shirt allaitement coeur
T-shirt allaitement pas cher
T-shirt allaitement ouverture coté
T-shirt allaitement discret
T-shirt allaitement confortable
T-shirt allaitement originaux
T-shirt d'Allaitement avec col en V
T-shirts d'allaitement jaune
T-shirts d'allaitement marron
T-shirts d'allaitement multicolore
T-shirts d'allaitement rose
T-shirts d'allaitement rouge
T-shirts d'allaitement unis
Pyjamas d'allaitement
Pyjamas d'allaitement 2 pièces
Pyjamas d'allaitement en promotion
Pyjamas d'allaitement en soldes
Pyjamas d'allaitement leopard
Pyjamas de maternité
Chemises de nuit d'allaitement
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement à ouverture sur le côté
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement en promotion
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement pas chers
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement verts
Sweat-shirts d'allaitement roses
Sweat-shirts de grossesse
Sweat Shirts d'allaitement blancs
Pulls allaitement zip
Pulls allaitement maille
Pulls allaitement laine
Pulls allaitement grossesse
Pulls allaitement chaud
Pulls allaitement pas cher
Pulls allaitement hiver
Pulls d'allaitement ouverture coté
Pulls d'allaitement discret
Robes d’allaitement en maille
Robes d’allaitement chaudes
Robes d’allaitement d’hiver
Robes d’allaitement beiges
Robes d’allaitement longues
Robes d’allaitement courtes
Robes d'allaitement festives
Robes d'allaitement d'été
Robes d'allaitement de vacances
Robes d'allaitement en promotion
Robes d'allaitement noires
Robes d'allaitement pas cher
Robes d'allaitement pour mariage
Robes de grossesse
Robes pull allaitement

 

If you are only a pregnant mom, here are our maternity clothes:

Black maternity jeans
Gray maternity jeans
Colored maternity jeans
Blue maternity jeans
Cheap maternity jeans
Comfortable maternity jeans
Maternity jeans
Colored maternity jeans
Black maternity jeans
Gray maternity jeans
Blue maternity jeans
Cheap maternity jeans
Comfortable maternity jeans
Maternity pants
Black maternity pants
Gray maternity pants
Colored maternity pants
Blue maternity pants
Jeans for pregnant women
Gray maternity jeans
Blue maternity jeans
Black jeans for pregnant women
Cheap jeans for pregnant women
Comfortable maternity jeans

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