Breastfeeding: how to involve dad in this wonderful family adventure

When baby arrives, breastfeeding often seems to be an adventure for the mother alone. And yet, the father or co-parent has an invaluable role to play in supporting, accompanying and sharing this period. At 23 Mai Paris, we believe that breastfeeding becomes lighter and more joyful when experienced as a team. Find out how dads can get involved, right from the very first feeds.

1. Understanding dad's role during breastfeeding

Breastfeeding is a strong bond between mother and baby. But that doesn't mean that dad has to take a back seat. On the contrary, his attentive presence, support and small gestures can make all the difference. It's not just a question of helping, but of participating, of being active and present. Olo Foundation+2Born and Grown+2

2. Three simple gestures to be present

Help with installation

Before the feed, dad can prepare the breastfeeding area: put cushions in place, adjust the lighting and make sure everything is within easy reach. These gestures show that mom's comfort counts. Les Louves+1

Bring a drink or snack

Breastfeeding requires energy. During feedings, dad can offer a glass of water, herbal tea or fruit. These attentions are also a way of bonding the family around this moment. Les Louves

Taking care of baby after feeding

Once feeding is over, dad can take over: changing the diaper, burping, holding baby. This gives mom a break and strengthens the father-baby relationship. Olo Foundation+1

3. Why this involvement is beneficial

• For the mother: she feels supported, less alone when faced with the challenges of breastfeeding.

• For the baby: a strong bond with both parents.

• For the couple: breastfeeding becomes a shared experience, not a monopoly. Birth and growth+1
  What's more, when mom feels comfortable, settled and respected in her role, the environment becomes more conducive to long, serene breastfeeding.

4. Integrating mom and dad into the same rhythm

Choose times when dad can really take care of you: during walks, in the post-feeding settling-in area, or in "comfort assistant" mode. Think about the clothing too: a practical, elegant nursing top, like those offered by 23 Mai Paris, allows mom to feel at ease, which benefits the whole family.
Next, define a space for discussion before baby: talk about breastfeeding, expectations, doubts. When dad is informed, he feels useful. Carole Hervé

Conclusion

Involving dad in breastfeeding enriches this period for the whole family. Every little gesture counts, every support is precious. At 23 Mai Paris, we encourage you to live this stage together, with confidence, comfort and elegance, thanks to clothing designed for breastfeeding.