Article: First Mother's Day: Combining Business with Pleasure
First Mother's Day: Combining practicality with pleasure
Your first Mother’s Day is coming up, and you’re wondering what would really make you happy? Or maybe you’re looking for the perfect gift for a new mom you know? Between symbolic gifts that never get used and impersonal baby items, it’s hard to find a present that combines sentiment and practicality.
At 23 Mai Paris, we support breastfeeding moms every day. In this article, we’ll help you make this first Mother’s Day a memorable one: gifts that truly bring joy, ideas that simplify daily life, and our tips for combining practicality with pleasure.
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Why This First Mother's Day Is Special
A special moment in a woman's life
The first Mother's Day marks a turning point. It is the first time this new role, this new identity, is officially celebrated.
| What makes this moment special | Why it's important |
|---|---|
| Initial reconnaissance | You officially become a "mom" in everyone's eyes |
| Emotions Run High | Postpartum hormones make everything more intense |
| Accumulated fatigue | A small gesture of kindness goes a long way |
| The need to feel like a woman | Beyond the Role of a Mother |
| New needs | Daily life has completely changed |
What New Moms Really Want
According to what moms have said, here’s what they appreciate most:
| What they want | What they don't want |
|---|---|
| Feeling beautiful | Gifts that are just for the baby |
| Practical for everyday use | Items gathering dust |
| Time for themselves | Additional obligations |
| To be understood | Judgments about their motherhood |
| A touch of sweetness | The pressure |
Key takeaway: The perfect gift for a first Mother’s Day combines sentiment, practicality, and a thoughtful gesture for the woman she is.
Gifts that truly combine practicality with pleasure
Nursing clothes: the perfect gift
Why is nursing wear the perfect gift for her first Mother's Day?
| Advantage | Explanation |
|---|---|
| Useful for everyday life | Worn several times a week |
| Makes you feel beautiful | Fashion and motherhood finally at peace |
| Practical | Makes every feeding easier |
| Sustainable | Use throughout the entire breastfeeding period |
| Staff | A gift for her, not for the baby |
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Our selection by budget
| Budget | Our suggestion | Why this choice? |
|---|---|---|
| Less than €40 | Breastfeeding t-shirt | An everyday essential, timeless |
| €40–70 | Breastfeeding dress | Stylish, practical, versatile |
| €70–100 | T-shirt and sweatshirt set | Complete look, optimal comfort |
| Over $100 | Wardrobe Set | Several matching pieces |
The most commonly offered items
| Play | Why it's a success |
|---|---|
| The Breastfeeding dress | Stylish, one-piece, easy to wear |
| The nursing sweatshirt | Cozy and comfortable, perfect for home |
| The basic T-shirt | A must-have, perfect for everyday wear |
| The tank top | Perfect for summer or as a base layer |
| Nursing pajamas | For a more restful night's sleep |
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Gift sets and collections
| Type of box | Suggested content | Ideal for |
|---|---|---|
| Pampering Gift Set | Pajamas + soft socks + candle | A tired mom who needs some TLC |
| Daily Gift Set | 2 T-shirts + 1 tank top | Practical Mom |
| Complete set | Dress + T-shirt + accessory | A generous gift |
| Summer Gift Set | Lightweight dress + tank top | Mother's Day in the Spring |
Useful and beautiful accessories
| Accessory | Purpose | Average price |
|---|---|---|
| Nursing necklace | Keeps baby entertained during feedings, elegant jewelry | €25–€35 |
| Washable pads | Eco-friendly, affordable, attractive designs | €15–25 |
| Stylish diaper bag | Practical and stylish | €50–€100 |
| Multifunctional shawl | Nursing cover + fashion accessory | €30–50 |
Gifts based on the mom's personality
For moms who are still breastfeeding
| His need | The perfect gift |
|---|---|
| Convenience | Nursing clothes with discreet openings |
| Comfort | Cozy nursing pajamas |
| Style | Breastfeeding dress |
| Rest | Good for a massage session |
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For moms who are weaning
| His need | The perfect gift |
|---|---|
| Transition | Clothes that can still be worn after weaning |
| Celebration | A keepsake to commemorate her breastfeeding journey |
| New chapter | "Regular" clothes that she can't wait to wear again |
For moms who aren't breastfeeding
| His need | The perfect gift |
|---|---|
| Comfort | Soft and practical clothing |
| Convenience | Outfits that are easy to slip on while holding a baby |
| Feeling like a woman | Fashion accessories, beauty products |
For moms returning to work
| His need | The perfect gift |
|---|---|
| Accessible wardrobe | Stylish nursing tops for the office |
| Organization | Professional diaper bag |
| Breast pump | If she wants to continue breastfeeding |
The intangible gifts that make all the difference
Time for herself
| Idea | How to give it as a gift |
|---|---|
| Babysitting | "I'll watch the baby for three hours; you can do whatever you want." |
| Housework done | Give a house cleaning session as a gift or do it yourself |
| Prepared meals | Cooking meals to freeze |
| Shopping done | Offer to do the grocery shopping for her |
Moments of well-being
| Idea | Average price |
|---|---|
| Postpartum Massage | €60–100 |
| Facial Treatment | €50–€80 |
| Hairdresser | €40–€80 |
| Manicure | €30–50 |
| Postnatal yoga class | $15–$25 per session |
Experiences to share
| Idea | For what occasion |
|---|---|
| Family Brunch | Mother's Day |
| Family photo shoot | Capture this first chapter |
| Nature Walk | A simple, rejuvenating moment |
| Restaurant (baby-friendly) | A stress-free outing |
How to Choose the Right Gift
Questions to Ask Yourself
| Question | Why it's important |
|---|---|
| Is she still breastfeeding? | Determine the type of clothing |
| What is his/her style of dress? | How to choose the right parts |
| What are his favorite colors? | To customize your selection |
| Does she need anything? | To be truly useful |
| What is my budget? | To identify the right options |
Sizes: How to Choose the Right One
| Tip | How to |
|---|---|
| Request directly | If it's for his girlfriend or a close friend |
| Take a look at your current wardrobe | Check the labels discreetly |
| Choose stretch fabrics | More flexibility regarding size |
| Opt for loose-fitting styles | Less chance of error |
| Keep the ticket | If necessary, please contact us |
To make the right choice, check out our article How many nursing clothes do you really need?
Mistakes to avoid
| Error | Why is this a problem? | Solution |
|---|---|---|
| Give a gift just for the baby | It's not his day | Choosing a gift for HER |
| Choosing a size that's too small | Negative body image | If in doubt, go up a size |
| Donate baby supplies | Impersonal, not festive | Save that for another time |
| Forget the card | Lack of emotion | Write a few heartfelt words |
| Don't give anything | "It's just business," but it hurts | A small gesture is all it takes |
Gift ideas by budget
Less than €30
| Idea | Price | Why it's good |
|---|---|---|
| Washable nursing pads | €15–25 | Practical, eco-friendly, and featuring pretty designs |
| Scented candle + a little note | €20–€30 | A moment of relaxation |
| Good for free time | Free | Priceless for a new mom |
| Flowers + chocolates | €20–€30 | A classic, but always a favorite |
Between €30 and €60
| Idea | Price | Why it's good |
|---|---|---|
| Breastfeeding t-shirt | €35–45 | Useful for everyday life |
| Handcrafted nursing necklace | €25–€40 | Jewelry + practical function |
| Enjoy your massage | €50–60 | A moment of relaxation |
| Breastfeeding pyjamas | €45–60 | Milder nights |
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Between €60 and €100
| Idea | Price | Why it's good |
|---|---|---|
| Breastfeeding dress | €60–80 | Stylish and practical |
| Breastfeeding sweatshirt | €55–75 | Everyday Comfort |
| Gift Set: Skincare + Clothing | €70–100 | The perfect combination |
| Family photo shoot | €80–150 | Memories to Last a Lifetime |
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Over $100
| Idea | Price | Why it's good |
|---|---|---|
| Complete Wardrobe Set | €100–150 | Several matching pieces |
| Family Weekend | €150–300 | A memorable experience |
| Personalized keepsake jewelry | €100–€200 | Symbolic and sustainable |
| Breastfeeding dress | €150–250 | Complete breastfeeding set |
How to wrap the gift
Packaging makes all the difference
| Packaging type | Effect |
|---|---|
| Kraft paper + ribbon | Natural, elegant |
| Gift box | Premium, surprise effect |
| Cloth pouch | Reusable, eco-friendly |
| Gift bag with tissue paper | Festive, easy |
The little note that makes all the difference
Here are a few message ideas:
For his partner:
"On your first Mother's Day, thank you for making me the happiest dad in the world. You're amazing."
For a friend:
"Happy first Mother's Day! You're handling it like a pro, even on just three hours of sleep. This gift is for you—and you alone."
For her sister/sister-in-law:
"Seeing my sister become a mom is one of the most wonderful things. Enjoy this little gift!"
For her own mother (who is becoming a grandmother):
"Thank you for showing me how to be a good mom. Now it's my turn, and I have the best role model."
Mother's Day: Traditions to Start
Simple rituals for the first year
| Ritual | How to set it up |
|---|---|
| Breakfast in bed | My partner takes care of everything in the morning |
| Annual photo | Same pose every year to see how things have changed |
| Letter to My Child | Write down how you feel on this first day |
| Planted flower | A shrub that will grow alongside the child |
| Memory Album | Start a photo album of this first year |
What really matters
| What makes the difference | Why |
|---|---|
| Recognition | To feel seen and appreciated |
| Rest | To be able to take a break for a few hours |
| The presence | Spending time with the family |
| Attention | Small everyday actions |
| Listening | Being able to talk about what we're going through |
Frequently Asked Questions
What should you do if Mom doesn't like Mother's Day?
Respect her choice, but still offer a small, thoughtful gesture. A simple "I'm thinking of you—you're a great mom" might be enough. Some moms have personal reasons for not celebrating this holiday, but still appreciate the recognition.
Should the baby bring a gift?
It’s a lovely gesture, especially if your partner can handle it. A gift “from the baby” with a little card is often very touching for a first Mother’s Day. A handprint or footprint is a classic that never fails to please.
And if I'm the mom myself, can I get myself a gift?
Absolutely! You deserve to treat yourself to something that makes you happy. In fact, it’s highly recommended. Treating yourself to a piece of nursing wear you really love, a spa treatment, or some “me time” is a wonderful way to celebrate this milestone.
When is Mother's Day?
In France, Mother's Day is celebrated on the last Sunday in May (unless Pentecost falls on that day, in which case it is moved to the first Sunday in June). Be sure to check the exact date each year!
How can we celebrate if we're far away from Mom?
Send a package containing a practical gift (such as nursing clothing or an accessory) and a long letter. Set up a video call on the big day. Thoughtfulness matters more than being there in person.
Conclusion
This first Mother’s Day is a special occasion that deserves to be celebrated with care. By choosing a gift that combines practicality with pleasure, you’re giving much more than just a present: you’re acknowledging the unseen work of motherhood and showing that you see the woman behind the mom.
At 23 Mai Paris, we create nursing wear designed to support moms in their daily lives. Beautiful and practical pieces that let you feel like a woman while being a mother: the perfect gift for a first Mother’s Day.
Discover our collection of nursing wear and find the perfect gift for this special occasion.
If you're breastfeeding, here are some of our collections you might be interested in:
